pardon me,
i've been on a.o.l.
since they had 300,000 subscribers,
so i've never needed another i.s.p.,
thus have no experience with mail apps...

but is it really the case that
the major mail programs
won't let you set them to
delay downloads until you approve?

i mean, i know the 
software industry is
feeding us crapware,
but to fail to provide such a 
simple and useful functionality
seems to be laughably pitiable...

-bowerbird