[pastorsforum] Re: [PastorsForum] Yellow Flag On The Field!!!!

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From: "David Warner" <dwarner@...>
Date: Fri, 15 Sep 2006 20:28:49 -0400 (EDT)
Amen Steve.
If I hadn't already sent my reply trying to defend what I said, etc. I
would not send it after reading your post.  Thanks for saying what we
needed.
David W


> Time out - just a suggestion here: Sometimes it is better off just to
> ignore and delete a post rather than respond trying to defend what you
> said or what someone else said.  If something is offensive to you then
> please follow the Mt. 18 route and try to deal with it personally --
> i.e. off forum, so the rest of us do not have to be subjected to it.
> Everyone on the forum has a button and everyone on the forum has a
> button pusher - some guys know how to push other guys buttons and that
> usually sets things off pretty negatively.  If the only button we push
> is the delete button we might all be better off.
>
>
>
> Peace,
> Steve
>
> Jerry wrote:
>
>> Craig,
>>
>> You ought to know (and if you don't, then go back through the archives
>>  recently), that there has be NO slashing and burning thankfully since
>>  the "split" of this list.
>>
>> The "split" on the list was unfortunate and unnecessary, and I am
>> still grieved over it.
>>
>> If you will check what has been written, .. it is you that refers to
>> his comments as "dribble" and "hypocritical."  Those are not kind
>> words to throw at one another.  If you had written that to me, ....
>> well, ... let's just say that it would not sit well with me.
>>
>> You criticize David for going to a new list and staying on PF.  Many
>> other brothers have done the same thing, including me.  I am a member
>> of several forums.
>>
>>
>> Please, tell me WHY you insist on dealing with ME when it is himself
>> who seems to constantly throw sand on ANYONE who is not as
>> "open-minded" as he is.
>>
>>
>>
>> I responded to your post when you asked David to "go away."   As
>> moderator, I deemed that inappropriate. I tried to gently steer you
>> away from asking another participant to leave. We do not ask those who
>>  see things differently than us to "leave" the list.
>>
>> I do not see him as having thrown sand on anyone.
>>
>> You accused him of bashing and IMHO what he had written was not
>> bashing.
>>
>> We do tend to hash over the same points ad infinitum and beat the
>> proverbial horse to death.
>>
>> There are hundreds of engaging topics and issues we could deal with.
>>
>> Perhaps we can all endeavor to not be too sensitive to particular
>> brothers on this list who seem to "pull our chains."  I personally am
>> trying to do that. :-)
>>
>> Jerry
>>
>>
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