I agree with you brother Jack. I would rather they be married than live together but I am wondering about making a vow. Is the wedding vow to God or to each other or the Justice of the peace? I don't know where the practice comes from but being married in a church wedding has always been the thing to do. Just wondering....... Rev Jerry Martin Exodus Christian Worship Center 3455 1/2 W. Polo RD Winston-Salem, NC 27106 336-806-1188 Please note: message attached