Standing Shoulder To Shoulder With You In The Trenches As We fight The Good Fight SHOULDER TO SHOULDER #91 ---- 10/11/99 TITLE: "I Be Your Legs" My Dear Co-Laborer in Ministry: What a great time to be alive! What a great time to be in vocational ministry! Have you thanked the Lord lately for how He has blessed you and given you the opportunity to minister His Grace to others? And to be a recipient yourself of that same Grace day by day? This has been a good but difficult week for me ---- filled with more blessings and more reasons to praise God than I can count. At the same time I have experienced physical and mental weariness at an uncommonly intense level, primarily because of the fatigue caused by my long-lingering cold and necessary medication, and because of a very hectic schedule filling my days and many of my nights. Frankly, in spite of the joys and blessings, I'm looking forward to four uninterrupted days with Jo Ann as we meet some special friends, Ben and Sandie, in good old Branson, Missouri. Ben was saved and surrendered to preach under my father's ministry many years ago. We became very close friends. He and I sang in a men's quartet together, and he was best man in our wedding. Now retired from the Air Force chaplaincy, he lovingly pastors a church in Texas. Jo Ann and I are really looking forward to catch our breath, put our feet up, and just enjoy the moments. We both need to be emotionally and spiritually recharged. RESPONSE TO HOAXES & OBSOLETES: Frankly, I was not prepared for the positive comments I got back on last week's letter and the addendum I sent ---- it really didn't have much of an "encouragement" tone to it. Yet, it seems I'm not the only one who is frustrated over irresponsible forwarding on the part of some of their Christian friends. Last Wednesday night the Minister of Worship at the church where I am interim pastor shared a "Proctor and Gamble" letter from a major denominational magazine addressing the problem. Their report was identical to mine. Later that week the chairman of deacons in the church forwarded me the following letter which has some good information, though some of it is "tongue-in-cheek". Hope you like it. ++++++++++ Subject: Thirteen Things Everyone Should Know: 1. Big companies don't do business via chain letter. Bill Gates is not giving you $1000, and Disney is not giving you a free vacation. There is no baby food company issuing class-action checks. MTV will not give you backstage passes if you forward something to the most people. You can relax; there is no need to pass it on "just in case it's true." Furthermore, just because someone said in the message, four generations back, that "we checked it out and it's legit," does not actually make it true. 2. There is no kidney theft ring in New Orleans. No one is waking up in a bathtub full of ice, even if a friend of a friend swears it happened to their cousin. If you are bent on believing the kidney-theft ring stories, please see: http://urbanlegends.tqn.com/library/weekly/aa062997.htm And I quote: "The National Kidney Foundation has repeatedly issued requests for actual victims of organ thieves to come forward and tell their stories. None have." That's "none" as in "zero." Not even your friend's cousin. Besides, if you were to wake up in ice, you would die of Hypothermia!!! 3. Neiman Marcus doesn't really sell a $200 cookie recipe. And even if they do, we all have it. And even if you don't, you can get a copy at: http://www.bl.net/forwards/cookie.html Then, if you make the recipe, decide the cookies are that awesome, feel free to pass the recipe on. 4. We all know all 500 ways to drive your roommates crazy, irritate coworkers, gross out bathroom stall neighbors and creep out people on an elevator. We also know exactly how many engineers, college students, Usenet posters and people from each and every world ethnicity it takes to change a light bulb. 5. If the latest NASA rocket disaster(s) DID contain plutonium that went to particulate over the eastern seaboard, do you REALLY think this information would reach the public via an AOL chain-letter? 6. There is no "Good Times" virus. In fact, you should never, ever, ever forward any mail containing any virus warning unless you first confirm it at an actual site of an actual company that actually deals with viruses.Try http://www.norton.com. And even then, don't forward it. We don't care. And you cannot get a virus from a flashing IM or email, you have to download....ya know, like a FILE! 7. If you're using Outlook, I.E., or Netscape to write email, turn off the "HTML encoding." Those of us on Unix shells can't read it, and don't care enough to save the attachment and then view it with a web browser, since you're probably forwarding us a copy of the Neiman Marcus Cookie Recipe anyway. 8. If you still absolutely MUST forward that 10th-generation message from a friend, at least have the decency to trim the eight miles of headers showing everyone else who's received it over the last 6 months. It sure wouldn't hurt to get rid of all the "" (or the >) that begin each line. Besides, if it has gone around that many times -- we've probably already seen it. 9. Craig Shergold (or Sherwood, or Sherman, etc.) in England is not dying of cancer or anything else at this time and would like everyone to stop sending him their business cards. He apparently is also no longer a "littleboy" either. 10. The "Make a Wish" foundation is a real organization doing fine work, but they have had to establish a special toll free hotline in response to the large number of Internet hoaxes using their good name and reputation. It is distracting them from the important work they do. 11. If you are one of those insufferable idiots who forwards anything that promises "something bad will happen if you don't," then something bad will happen to you if I ever meet you in a dark alley. 12. Women really are suffering in Afghanistan, and PBS and NEA funding are still vulnerable to attack (although not at the present time) but forwarding an email won't help either cause in the least. If you want to help, contact your local legislative representative, or get in touch with Amnesty International or the Red Cross. 13. Febreeze does not kill or maim animals. Check with your local vet if in doubt. As a general rule, email "signatures" are easily faked and mean nothing to anyone with any power to do anything about whatever the petition is complaining about. (P.S. There is no bill pending before Congress that will allow long distance companies to charge you for long distance when using the Internet.) Bottom Line ... composing Email or posting something on the Net is as easy as writing on he walls of a public restroom. Don't automatically believe it unless it's proven true...ASSUME it's false, unless there is proof that it's true. Got it? ++++++++++++ You may feel I've taken far too much time and space on this subject, and I may have. However, I believe it is one practical way in which we can demonstrate clear Biblical instruction about our conversation as believers ---- by simply taking time to check out the facts before we forward any such document, refuse to forward anything unsubstantiated, and write our findings back up the line from whence the letter came asking them to do the same. I am going to compile all the helpful information I have received into one single condensed document which I can send to others who, in the future, need to be informed. If you would like a copy for your own use, I'll be happy to send it. I BE YOUR LEGS: Several weeks ago someone sent me the following story. What a blessing it was to me. ++++++++++++++ Bob Butler lost his legs in a 1965 land mine explosion in Vietnam. He returned home a war hero. Twenty years later, he proved once again that heroism comes from the heart. Butler was working in his garage in a small town in Arizona on a hot summer day when he heard a woman's screams coming from a nearby house. He began rolling his wheelchair toward the house but the dense shrubbery wouldn't allow him access to the back door. So he got out of his chair and started to crawl through the dirt and bushes. "I had to get there," he said. "It didn't matter how much it hurt." When Butler arrived at the pool there was a three-year-old girl named Stephanie Hanes lying at the bottom. She had been born without arms and had fallen in the water and couldn't swim. Her mother stood over her baby screaming frantically. Butler dived to the bottom of the pool and brought little Stephanie up to the deck. Her face was blue, she had no pulse and was not breathing. Butler immediately went to work performing CPR to revive her while Stephanie's mother telephoned the fire department. She was told the paramedics were already out on a call. Helplessly, she sobbed and hugged Butler's shoulder. As Butler continued with his CPR, he calmly reassured her. "Don't worry," he said. "I was her arms to get out of the pool. It'll be okay. I am now her lungs. Together, we can make it." Seconds later the little girl coughed, regained consciousness, and began to cry. As they hugged and rejoiced together the mother asked Butler how he knew it would be okay. "The truth is I didn't know," he told her. "But when my legs were blown off in the war, I was all alone in a field. No one was there to help except a little Vietnamese girl. As she struggled to drag me into her village, she whispered in broken English: 'It okay. You can live. I be your legs. Together, we make it.' Her kind words brought hope to my soul and I wanted to do the same for Stephanie." ++++++++++++++ There are simply those times when we cannot stand alone. There are those times when we need someone to be our legs, our arms, our friend. Those of us in vocational ministry like to think that we're somehow invincible or vaccinated from personal hurts and injuries. Even when something generates irreparable damage, we still try to hobble along with limbs missing, wounds gaping, and life draining from our battered selves. There are times when we desperately need somebody to come along and be our arms or our legs. We may be like the innocent little girl with no arms drowning in a pool of despair or hopelessness, dangerously close to death and, in semi-conscious state, cry out to God that someone may come along who can pull us out of certain death and breathe the fresh breeze of the Spirit back into our lives. We may be like Bob Butler the brave warrior, caught in the middle of a fire fight from which there is no escape without casualty, and we need another brave soldier to come to our defense or a little prayer warrior of a girl who will come along and through her intercession drag us out of the line of fire and into the protection of a community of oppressed but determined believers to protect us and restore us. Do you need a Bob Butler, my friend? Do you need a little prayer warrior like that Vietnamese girl who knew Butler was not too big to carry to safety? I just want to take this letter to remind you of what you already know ---- you and I probably either need a Bob Butler, or we need to Be a Bob Butler to someone else. We just need someone's legs to carry us through. Or, we need to be legs for someone in order to help carry him through. Either way, let's do it together. "I Be Your Legs!" In Christ's bond, Bob Tolliver ---- (Rom 1:11-12) Copyright October, 1999. All rights reserved. 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